So I'm going on a 'date' tomorrow night. FYI I never 'dated' my whole life.
I thought a lot about it. And I don't want to do anything but enjoy myself. No background thoughts of any kind. And I told the OW the truth (no details) about my circumstances, let her decide and she's fine with it.
I'm still a little torn if this is right, but you know what. I just let my gut decide and I'll do what I feel like, be sincere, honest and authentic. It's for me. And Im not up to hurting anyone and will be cautious. I don't care what others think. But I still wanna hear it wink


Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15