Yes alpha. I mean I do the same mistakes than you..or did. Just read your own poss here again and count the words W, she, her.
She's just still too much of a focus. You need to change that. It might take you some more time, just try to work on it.
You need to reach the point where this is only about you (and your children).


Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15