Yes alpha. I mean I do the same mistakes than you..or did. Just read your own poss here again and count the words W, she, her. She's just still too much of a focus. You need to change that. It might take you some more time, just try to work on it. You need to reach the point where this is only about you (and your children).
Me 32 (German) Wife 28 T 3yrs M 2yrs Moved to US for W No kids BD 6/2014 In house separation Confirmed EA 1/2015 (ongoing since BD) OM not ready Real D talk started 1/27/15