I feel your pain! My situation is similar to yours in that my WAW has 3 children and I have 3 from a previous marriage. One difference, as far as I know, is that there is no OM involved. My WAW is staying 3 1/2 hrs away with her Mom/Stepdad.
We didn't fight much, but once all of our children (except 1 still who lives with his Dad) went to college, my W started acting distant, too.
I was on the WAS forum since December until recently I realized that it is for WAS's who support each other, not the LBS.
Please hang in there! My W seems to have resolve to get the D over with, but just the other day she sent me a text mentioning how much she misses me, etc. but not the "stressful situation." She has MS and I became overprotective to summarize. Problem is...she never told me or I wasn't listening.
If you have time, check out my thread on this forum (Newcomers). I have received some great advice, as I see you have, too.
We'll get thru this!
Bob
Bob,
I will read up on your sitch.
My wife also has sent me texts about missing my cooking and not wanting to be divorced at this age. Hello!!! You initiated this!!! WTF?
Me M51 WW F46 T 17 yrs M 16 yrs 9 children D29 D27 D26 S24 S24 S19 S19 niece18 S17 8 grandchildren ILYBINILWY: 12/15/14 I discover PA 12/31/14 She files D: 1/9/15 She moves out 3/2/15 D papers served 3/18/15
