She is lying. On a positive you have found out what is going on early , it seems before anything physical has happened because it will if it doesn't stop. They will find a way. Set your boundaries. If she continues then you have some tough decisions to make about what you want to do. Most important thing to realise is you cannot control your wife. The more you try the further she will pull away. You can only control you
Me:40 W:35 D:8 T:13 M:10 WAW: 7/14 PA Discovered: 1/15 at least 6 months Moved out and moved on