Sell the tickets and don't mention anything about them I had the same issue. I just sold them and more than recouped my money. Ebay As for your bday do something you want to do be that with or without your kids. Again don't mention it to your wife. If she brings it up then so be it. Don't expect anything from her either. My wife is so nuts she actually bought me chocolates on Valentine's when she had been out all day screwing OM. Laughable. And no I didn't eat them
You need to let go. Your wife did a long time ago. Sorry bud but it's the truth. its what we all struggle to deal with.
She's gone at the very least for the foreseeable future so get on living your own life. Just concentrate on you and your kids. Forget what w is doing because there is nothing you can do about that.
Me:40 W:35 D:8 T:13 M:10 WAW: 7/14 PA Discovered: 1/15 at least 6 months Moved out and moved on