All this while I've been sleeping! I agree with what everyone has said so far. Playing crafts with niece - I also took that as an effort to connect or at least acknowledge that he knows something of your interests (not in a digging way). It's good to get some sign that he is still in the fog I think. Sure if would be better if he came out with a clear Yes let's R! But failing this I think confused is good, especially knowing Toots is Toots and living her life rather than waiting around.
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014