I have read some of the applicable threads cadet linked me to.

Sandi's 37 rules have been up on my pc for several days.

They help, a lot like a daily affirmation sort of thing.

This weekend is going to be really tough. I was feeling better this morning but all afternoon has been terrible.

If I could drive, it would be a lot easier to grab a kid or two and get out of the situation for a while.

UGH.

Me: 35 Her (WAW): 34
D8, S5, D2
T:16, M:9
BD + D: 4/3/2015
EA Confirmed 5/6/2015
Separation under the same roof