"Do you want to know what my grown D said to me the day she revealed her knowledge of my A? "Mom, you know you would have never put up with Dad treating you the way you've treated him". Guess what? That was the truth!"
To be perfectly honest, if we didn't have kids together I would have handled this whole situation way different.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"