Put one foot in front of the other...

[Elly4]

Thanks Cadet, Zephyr, and Heart, I appreciate it. Cadet, I've never really set boundaries because we've just been going about our lives separately in the house. Some of my 180s have gotten responses and he's been talking more with me again which is good. But within the last two weeks he's been doing more things that are making me question my detachment. For example, he just texted me to say he won't be home for supper and we should eat without him, but he wants us all to go to a concert tomorrow. So, I can feel my stress climbing up.

I have been adamant that he wouldn't cheat on me, although maybe this is an EA not a PA but I don't know if I should do anything different.

Heart, I have met her. He is one of his employees and has been for 8 years and is married. Her H is on the road a lot. She is also the one he went to NY recently to see Les Miserables.