I'm fine with being patient. I just don't want to screw anything up. I want to do the right thing and keep my slim chances for reconciliation alive.
I'm not sure if I should have contacted her and told her that I was hiring a lawyer when she didn't reply to my request. I was clear in my email that there was a timetable involved. Not my timetable, mind you, but a legal timetable brought on by HER filing for divorce. I'm sure she feels blindsided. Sort of like me at BD and when she filed for divorce. Not my intention, just a reality of the legal issues at hand.
Please tell me if I should reach out to her and explain, or just leave things alone.
Me M51 WW F46 T 17 yrs M 16 yrs 9 children D29 D27 D26 S24 S24 S19 S19 niece18 S17 8 grandchildren ILYBINILWY: 12/15/14 I discover PA 12/31/14 She files D: 1/9/15 She moves out 3/2/15 D papers served 3/18/15
