Thanks Heavy! I am not convinced he is out of the picture as OM - plus they still work together for the time being - I believe she is still under the impression that he will always be a friend even if the A is over.
I don't know how to accept that - it is too much for me.
I know it is recommended to not leave - but the dynamic has to change some how. I am going to try to talk to her this weekend about this again.
I pray for you and your family too
Me-45 W-44 S21, S18, D15 T-27, M-21 BD Jan 2014 PA revealed March 2014 In-house separation - April 2015 I filed - Aug 2015 She moved out Oct 2015