Thanks Heavy!
I am not convinced he is out of the picture as OM - plus they still work together for the time being - I believe she is still under the impression that he will always be a friend even if the A is over.

I don't know how to accept that - it is too much for me.

I know it is recommended to not leave - but the dynamic has to change some how. I am going to try to talk to her this weekend about this again.

I pray for you and your family too


Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015