Originally Posted By: NLS
What do you like to do that makes you happy?

That is a tough question. As a codependent person, I was living for the approval of others. My game was, to make the other people happy and than they would feed me with love. So I have difficulties to answer this one. Although, when I think about it:

I love watching my bee hive.
I love to walk the streets at night.
I love to sit in the garden with a nice cup of tea.
I love to chat with my kids.
Most of the time I love my job.
I love to take long showers.
I love to take the dog out for a walk on a rainy day.
I love to sit in a café, watching people.
I love dancing, when no one is around.
I love to watch a good horror movie.
I love baking for others.
I love reading books about psychology and sociology.
I love to listen to good singer- songwriters.
I love to watch stand-up comedy.

Well, there is actually plenty of stuff. I am amazed. Usually I do not ask myself what I enjoy.


Me 46
W 45
S16 D14 S10
M 20 yrs in June T22
12/14 sleeping in different rooms
01/07/15 she said she wants a separation
02/26/15 I moved out