I am also finding out the better I am at detaching, the more fear I lose. You start to realize that you will be OKAY. I think deep down, I was always so worried about what W was thinking or what she might do. Will she leave me if I say no to this, will she leave me if I want to do this. I am also starting to see how W did not appreciate me very much. And does take advantage of my kindness.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"