Thanks RD. It's helpful to have your perspective. I had just thought - great, another holding response....

But you are right. He's unsure & with his family is a good place for him to be. I've always been very fond of them & they of me I think.

I figure I've started on this course - of I don't want to D, but won't stand in your way - and I just need to carry on & see it through now.

And thanks Alpha for the endorsement. I'm very grateful.

T x

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus