We have been separated for 2 months. Married 20 years. He wants to work on marriage and we go to therapy but he does nothing outside of therapy. He has pointed out everything I have done wrong in our 20 year marriage. This past summer he was texting with another women but said it was just friends. He says he has no feelings for me but that I make him very angry whenever he sees me. He doesn't understand why he has no feelings for me. Therapy is not helping. we are suppose to have date nights and family time but he doesn't follow thru or it ends up he gets mad and then doesn't talk to me for a week. At a lost as to what to do. He has completely changed since a year and half ago. Any thoughts? Can this be a mid-life crises and maybe AP?
