Hi Starsky.

I understand and agree with you with the re-contact clock reset. Getting the details of the cellphone billing is a good idea (and I do have her password for this too), but those details are pretty scarce. It is not one of the major cell phone companies so they have to save money somewhere. I feel the forwarding copies of the texts automatically to something I can view will suffice on that (she cannot delete these), then viewing her call log on her phone will coincide with that (cannot delete that list either).

Hi Toots,

Thank you. I did not let W know that I was going to do IC with the MC for that very reason. This was kind of more of a meeting I wanted to have with her to discuss what I was doing and get her thoughts on the matter. More discuss things that I did not feel like I could discuss in front of W yesterday. Get the MC in the loop with where I was coming from and what I was looking to do. If she suggests continuing IC, I will likely do so, but go somewhere else.

Thank you all for all of your support and help. I will keep you updated.


M: 29 W: 27
M: 4 yrs
T: 9 yrs
Children: S3
EA: Discovered 11/2014
PA: Admitted to starting 12/2014