I am trying to strike a balance between having intel on what W is up to/status of A etc and at the same time not becoming obsessed and extrapolating widly/mind read over every bit of info I receive. Any suggestions on how to handle this?
Yes. Log out of her YT account on your phone.
You seriously think that what she searches on YT gives ANY indication of the state of her affair? Personally, I find it borderline creepy.
Your focus is way off.
Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.
