A smile will be plastered with glue if necessary. Cheerful, light and upbeat it will be. Honestly though, I don't get the chance to see her - we just talk on the phone - briefly for the kids.
As for D process, I have no choice but to comply. It becomes harder as the process drags onwards. It's all about splitting money and kids and that's just not a fun prospect to deal with. I have no idea how it will turn out, hope for the best!