I think that accepting she wants to leave is important, and means you are respecting her decision.

If you didn't accept it and fought for her to stay, it suggests you are not really 'hearing' her..

It's counter intuitive I know..

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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus