I have been told that the AP is not the reason for the D but is a symptom of the failure of our marriage. Does it make it easier for WW to leave when they have someone lined up already? Is that what they tell themselves to make it easier? It does not make sense that ourmariage collapsed as soon as AP was on the scene.
Is this spart of the script?
I guess it doesn't really matter but it still bugs me.
I have to think that OP provided the catalyst for action on their parts. I am in agreement with the notion that our spouses had harbored some degree of resentment for a period of time, and that our behaviors were partially responsible. However, the appearance of OP propelled them to action, and not in a sensible fashion. They are all emotion and doing everything in their power to justify their actions at this point.
My wife was never one to not speak her mind, and until the day I discovered her affair, she NEVER mentioned divorce, separation, or irreconcilable differences. Since that day, she tells me and everyone else that she has miserable for years. It's all script!
Me M51 WW F46 T 17 yrs M 16 yrs 9 children D29 D27 D26 S24 S24 S19 S19 niece18 S17 8 grandchildren ILYBINILWY: 12/15/14 I discover PA 12/31/14 She files D: 1/9/15 She moves out 3/2/15 D papers served 3/18/15
