sort of my concern really. it will be a new R, not the old one. So i should expect those negative things to be addressed. but still this person can cheat. i know that. whatever the circumstances might be that lead to it.
also, there is of course history and a very attractive element is the kids in the middle. but otherwise, she has treated me like s**t since BD, secretly for months before that, why would I pursue a new R with this person who I dont even want to give her the time of day.
First the kids. Assuming normal genetics they are 50% her, and 50% you. So if you are mad at her, are you half mad at your kids too? I sure hope not. But be careful what your kids might see.
Yes part of the script is that she has treated you badly since the bomb, you dont want a relationship with that person, only as new and improved version of her.
Likewise she wants a new and improved version of you.
