sort of my concern really. it will be a new R, not the old one. So i should expect those negative things to be addressed. but still this person can cheat. i know that. whatever the circumstances might be that lead to it.
also, there is of course history and a very attractive element is the kids in the middle. but otherwise, she has treated me like s**t since BD, secretly for months before that, why would I pursue a new R with this person who I dont even want to give her the time of day.
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015