Just one thought on the IC/MC. Not sure what others think of this, but would it be an idea to have a different IC? I can see a possible dynamic of your W feeling threatened by the fact that you and IC discuss stuff in separate sessions that she isn't privy too.
Others may have had experience of how this could work - I'm just posting as it popped into my head!
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