Pyrite: Eye of the storm?

[Heart14]

Pyrite, I want to respond to what you wrote in Fogg's thread about whether you want your W back and if she can turn back into the old her again.

No, she is not likely to turn back into the same person. You don't want that anyway. Your old M is gone, it's not coming back. In time you could create a new M with your W. That is unknown and both of you have to change first. You cannot control her change. She has to do that on her own because she wants to. This journey take a lot of time and patience. There is a saying around here that I repeated to myself a lot. This is a marathon, not a sprint.

Take charge of you and focus on making changes in your life. DB can help you save your M, but much more importantly it can help save you. It's about finding your own happiness with or without W. She is not responsible for your happiness. You are.