My question would be (and I've only read your last couple of posts) why did you hire a L?

Not the legal protection reasons we all get that. Why did you at that moment in time, decide that today is the day I hire a L?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss