Yeah, pay no attention to the quicksand that's W and OW. You don't want to get pulled into the pit. Look out for #1.
That's what I've learned from these boards... I am in such a good place right now. Not going to get sucked in. Just observing. Primary goal is taking care of myself and my kids -- but putting on my oxygen mask first for sure :-)
Me 48, Her 50 (Same-Sex Couple) 3 Children Together: 9.5 years before BD BD: Week of 10/27/14 ExW started EA w OW 9/2014 ExW married OW 12/2015