Having said that, everyone has their own perspective on things don't they? Total mind reading I know but isn't it possible H decided to text you after speaking to relatives? If so it would at least indicate that he has indeed been thinking/talking things over. Maybe the mention of the crafts activity was a way of connecting with you over an activity that you're known to like? I wouldn't necessarily see it as something insensitive. I suppose it depends on the exact nature of the text.
Of course the endless waiting would send anyone around the bend but your posts indicate that you have handled this with aplomb! I think at this point you know what to do, as per your last post. Take time to think out what you want to do. Should you choose to reply act 'as if' you're not waiting around for his decision. Keep up the good work!
BD - 30TH JAN 2015 S - 30TH JAN 2015 PA CONFIRMED - 16TH FEB 2015 (SINCE AT LEAST OCT 2014) CONTINUAL TALK OF D ME: 31 W: 28 T: 10yrs M: 4.5yrs D:5, S:6
