Just reading through your sitch. Do you have a lawyer? It sounds like he does, but you are doing things on your own. My wife also advocated for no lawyers, and then I realized that there were a lot of hidden assets on her end, and she wanted to saddle me with all the bills. The vets on this board advised getting a lawyer, and I agree with that advice. I'm too emotional now, but I need to consider future repercussions

Protect yourself and get a lawyer.

Me M51
WW F46
T 17 yrs
M 16 yrs
9 children D29 D27 D26 S24 S24 S19 S19 niece18 S17
8 grandchildren
ILYBINILWY: 12/15/14
I discover PA 12/31/14
She files D: 1/9/15
She moves out 3/2/15
D papers served 3/18/15