Other potential news... If OW is not yet out of the picture, I think there may be trouble in paradise... Something just seems off - not seeing evidence for past few days of texting or skyping/phone calls... And two days ago I found out W turned off her phone while at S7's baseball game (would have been prime time for their texting - since this started W has always texted OW during kids' games with no guilt)... and this morning she wrote a manuscript-length email to someone (I think it was OW) while I was in the office on my computer. We sit back-to-back and her screen is too far away for me to see clearly, but she was writing forever, the email was VERY long (I could at least see that), and the "To" field seemed to contain a name that appeared to be the same length as OW's... And she did not start the email with any sort of salutation -- and I know from what I had seen in the past with their emails, she always used some sort of salutation -- either OW's name, or once things heated up, one of their pet names for each other... Absence of a salutation would mean (for my W) that the email wasn't necessarily a lovey-dovey email... I know this from my experience with my communications with my W :-)
I know this doesn't mean much -- the A could easily start back up, and even if it doesn't, there is no way to predict what will happen next... W will certainly go through affair withdrawal and she could always find OW2 instead of waking up, progressing through the tunnel, and realizing she has an awesome catch already right here at home :-)
Regardless of what is going on -- W is still being very friendly with me and there is peace in the house, so at least we have that. However, I now know that I am strong enough to withstand Monster if Monster ever comes back.
Thank you all for the positive thoughts and prayers around the job stich. I already feel so completely different this morning. I only thought I felt strong and confident yesterday before I got the news... now I truly do feel invincible! I CAN take on so much more than I had ever dreamed!
Life is very good.
God is very good.
Me 48, Her 50 (Same-Sex Couple) 3 Children Together: 9.5 years before BD BD: Week of 10/27/14 ExW started EA w OW 9/2014 ExW married OW 12/2015
