Brought this from MB's closed thread. Ok, ok. What about this: divorce is often a sad thing, and it's reasonable for someone to feel sad about it, regardless of the circumstances.
The kernal of truth is, we have no control over what other's should or shouldn't feel or do. It's a losing proposition to get into that game. We can only know how we feel and use that to define what we need from ourselves and others.
A question: How would someone else feeling bad/guilty/sad/emabarrassed about something affect you, your life?
Are you walking through life trying to live up to everyone's expectations and not paying attention to you?
(Is that better? I am really trying, labug! ) :*)
Claire, you're right where you need to be and you're not a quitter. You keep coming back
We each have the answers inside us, we just need the courage to unearth them.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
