BD2 - July 2014, H admits PA. I move to parents 2 hrs away
Jul-Sep 2014 - lots of talking with H, A continues, he's 'confused.'
Oct-Feb 2014 - Virtually NC. I rent a flat, build up my own life, no idea of A status.
Feb 2015 - H made redundant. Wants to sell our house. Says our R is over, then backtracks. OW back in the country, but H is 'dating' others ATM.
Mar 2015 - Agree to sell house, formalise S and divide assets. H then says he wants us to D. I tell him I love him and D isn't what I want. He's thinking about things.
Well, I just realised that nothing at all has changed since my last recap....
So, I received a text from H today:
*He is sorry he hasn't been in touch *He has gone to the US to see his sisters *He thought it best to talk with them before making big decisions *He has been spending time with his nieces doing crafts *Did I know my father has another email virus?
I'm not sure whether to even bother replying TBH. Any thoughts?
I have always got along well with his sisters. One of them was very upset and dead against the A relationship. The other said that if he was feeling so unhappy with his life, perhaps a change would be the right thing. Both have said to me that they love having me as a sister in law - but haven't been in touch with me since pretty much after BD.
It's a bit insensitive of him to mention my nieces I think. He knows I always loved doing crafts with them. And now he's there doing that, whilst I'm not...
I won't do anything just now, and will see what you guys think.
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
