Yep that's really the key. It's like they no how to try and pull us on there. It's really like they are bi polar. After not uttering a word he then had some quite chatty talk with me where we both joked a little. I think humour, grace, and poise. I honestly try to keep myself on an even keel and not let his mood swings affect my mood.
Yeah journaling for sure helps, releases some of the things I'd like to say to him!
Me 26 H 25 M 4 T 5 Baby born 4/14 BD: 1/15 EA: 2/15 PA: 4/15 reconciling: 4/15 ILYBINILWY- 11/15 ILY-1/16 ILYBNILWY 4/16 ILY 6/16 ILYBINILWY 6/16 Baby due 3/17 BD 8/16