I do not listen to those songs to torture myself, instead telling myself, that others felt the same at one point in their lives and that my emotions right now are totally normal. I would never send those songs to W, that would backfire in a huge way.
Me 46 W 45 S16 D14 S10 M 20 yrs in June T22 12/14 sleeping in different rooms 01/07/15 she said she wants a separation 02/26/15 I moved out