ok - just read a bit withnole_girl - yes. She said unhealthy R, Now it was toxic, abusive. she's not the same person.

but really, there was very little discussion of this. BD and fallout lasted nearly 4 weeks. she was away for 1 of those. 1st 2 weeks her only criticism was she feels emotionally abused, sick of depression.

all my issues, and she wants nothing to do with it.


M: 6 T: 12
Kids: 2,4
BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015
EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015