Her: Would you like me to drop of the kids or do you want to come to my parents to see all the kids, and to see what everyone got for easter. Me: I guess, whatever is easiest.
I'm sure you'd benefit from being and appearing more decisive and in control. "Whatever" is not the word of a decisive man. You have your life, your priorities, your preferences. The wishy washy stuff is not just confusing, it's unattractive to a woman. So when you have a choice, you make a clear decision and communicate it. This is not just about how to answer your ex by the way, it's about your real thought process. The reason why you say "whatever" is probably that you give very low priority to your own needs, versus that of others. I'm sure deep down you have a preference. Perhaps it's that she drops them home because it gives you extra time for cleaning. Perhaps it's meeting the family, as she offered. But I bet you silence these personal preferences before they even reach your consciousness because you don't think them worthy. Well, they are from now on. Look for them inside of you and express them without shame. It will make you and everyone around you happier.
M39 D6 D3 (at S) S 2014-09 D 2016-09
"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.
