Nole_Girl (1) Intro

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Ask yourself if your H having an affair with OW is a deal breaker. If it is, and you strongly suspect, then you need to take the steps to find out for sure. If it is not a deal breaker, then as hard as it is, ignore it. And yes your H is going to swear up and down D is the only answer. My W did the same thing. She was having an A and basically rubbing it in my face. She even filed for D. But.....she never served me. She would never sit down to discuss how to settle the D without an attorney. At the same time she never wanted to discuss the M either and still insisted D was the only answer. She filed last May. Her filing expired because she did not serve me. I filed in a new state where we both had moved. I served her. And at this time. she is still dragging her feet. Her answers to discovery questions were due a little over 2 months ago. She has yet to turn them in. For someone who is so confident that D is the only answer, other than filing last May, she has done nothing to facilitate it.

Keep your chin up! It stinks where you are now, we all can relate. Focus on you and GAL. It is the only way you are going to get through this with your sanity. Plus it helps pass the time while your H does his own thing on his own time.