Nole_Girl (1) Intro

[Zues126]

So sorry Nole. Listen to Pilot. No expectations. Don't believe what you hear.

I reread your thread and to now don't think you've really taken full advantage of self reflection (at least not on this site). So you split once, got back together, now are split again.

What would he say are the reasons why he can't be with you? Did you try to make any changes after the first reconciliation? Did they last, and did he acknowledge them? What about now? What are his "deal breakers"?

If you can avoid looking at his part of it and use this pain to motivate you to make some true positive changes it will make you feel better for many reasons. One, you'll know you did everything possible for your M. Two, you'll know you won't make those mistakes again and it will be less likely you'll be in this spot. And three, you'll feel like a different person and the pain you're going through will dissipate at some point.

Please share with us and keep posting.