I wish I could say I did everything I was supposed to in this situation, but I didn't. I did EVERYTHING wrong. I got upset, I asked him why he was doing this, I asked him to reconsider, I cried. In 45 minutes I ruined any progress that I have made in the last few months. Why couldn't I just keep my mouth shut?
I really think this is it, I don't think he is going to ever come back.
I know it feels like it, but try not to dwell on it. You backtracked a bit, but it happens. And will happen again. The reality is nothing changed for the better or worse today. His mind is still where it was yesterday. He will probably have those feelings for the foreseeable future as well. You need to remember to limit your expectations and in doing so you can help control the emotional roller coaster.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16
