Hi NoneGirl. Sorry you are going through this. One thing to consider, and I think every LBS is guilty of this (understandably so) is that we always think our WAS is out living up the large life. Running around with a new love and never giving the LBS a second thought. While I suppose it has happened, usually it is not the case. Now if there is an OW in the picture, yea, he probably feels life is great and does not think much about you. Just remember As rarely last. While they are going on, you are not on his radar. But do not fool yourself for a second that he is not in pain...whether or not he shows it.

I know its not much help, but 6 months is really not a long time. Sure, we as "rational" people cannot understand why it takes that long to figure out what they want. Its just too bad rational thinking is not a strong characteristic of WAS.

Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16