I agree with what you are saying Zues. I do believe in my vows, regardless of how I feel. I have been sitting here waiting for 6 months, DBing, trying to be nice when he is being cold and validate where I can. And the whole time he is out there living the single life, going out all the time, maybe seeing someone else....I think he would be happy to just continue on this path forever. Not actually getting divorced, but not working on the marriage either. He's not losing anything in this situation. So I guess my question is how long do we let them treat us like this, hoping that they will wake up when who knows if they ever will?
Me:36 H: 29 T: 4 years M: 2 years No kids In-house sep 10/4/14 H moved out 1/2/15 Talk of D 4/9/15
"She's standing on a line between giving up and seeing how much more she can take" John Mayer