Put one foot in front of the other...

[Elly4]

So, I never did get feedback from some of the veterans on here and I can really use it as I'm freaking out again tonight...not that H saw it. On Tuesday night, H told me he was taking our S out to a Chinese restaurant while I was teaching. I told him I thought that was an excellent idea and to have fun. On Wednesday morning my three year old was bubbling over about what fun it was and that he wanted to do it again. Then when my H came home, my S looked at his dad and asked when they could go out to eat with the lady and her son again. I looked at my husband and he told me they met his friend there with her 10 year old son. This is the same friend he went to New York with.

Then today, he emailed me two job possibilities for the fall and came home with a list of things he needs to do to finish the house from us adding a second floor. I know I'm not supposed to mind read, but it seems pretty clear something is going on. Do I document this stuff, just ignore it, think about a boundary thing? Or am I just crazy!??!?!?!?