Agreed. Assuming your top priorities are 1) your own sanity, 2) not burning any bridges with your WAW...I don't think this email is in line with EITHER goal.
I'm mindreading here but I'd assume that the underlying reason for sending this is to either get them on your side and/or have them try to influence WAW towards the M again. NEITHER of these will happen, and it will probably have a serious opposite effect. It could not only light the bridge on fire with WAW, it could really negatively impact your co-parenting relationship with her. And it could create animosity and a lack of trust coming into divorce proceedings, life changing negotiations when you don't need an enemy.
Really, don't send anything. Make it therapeutic for you and work through your feelings on your own or with a DB coach or IC, or us. We're in your corner.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
