What would you do differently if you didn't want to R?
Mozza,
I agree there's not much I would change given everything. I look back and I think that without wanting to R, I wouldn't have catered to her and/or taken the stuff she said so harshly. Other than that; a part of me is holding out 'moving on' from a standpoint of trying to keep my heart open for her to come back. I guess, while I've dealt with some of the anger about the A, I can tell that I think I would have treated that a little differently. Don't get me wrong, both would have been productive; however if I didn't want to R I think I would have dealt with the anger earlier in the sitch.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
