Thanks Deb..I was hoping someone would whack me or rip the rope from my hands..ouch rope burns..rope dropped. The feeling is fading. You are correct, my gut isn't always right anymore. Old thought patterns, I go on automatic sometimes and need to talk back to them patterns!!!
Besides H was being a little RAAAANDY!!! last night...hasn't been like that for awhile. H does things when S is occupied, so while S was in the bathroom H was messing around with me ...
One time when we were in bed H was messing with me and S heard me say "don't (which means yes BTW)" and S says from his room "Dad what are you doing to Mom!"