Zephyr, try a couple of articles out there very much in spirit of DR that helped me enormously today - in dropping that rope. Fcuk Yes or No. My Girlfriend Dumped Me. It was like all 15k times after reading those a few times each.


Mid 30's
Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.