Alpha One, Alpha All #

[alpha99]

Hi Alpha, I agree with Twin about the 'doormat' advice.

You say your W is being pretty nice lately. Please don't start to feel this is a sign of change in your sitch. That is likely to take much longer, if it happens at all. It's much more likely that she wants you to co-operate on the sale of the house. By all means be pleasant in response, but plough your own furrow here...

Sounds like you are doing well though...

Hi Toots,

Thanks for your words of caution. As I've said, I see no change of view at all regarding our sitch from W. She is nice regarding the kids, being a little more flexible and relaxed in general, and whilst they could be seen a good, positive things, I am well aware that she could be 'playing' me to get what she wants. I looked back at three months' old text messages last night by chance (phone went funny). It was a clear reminder that she has lied to me on a consistent basis for at least a good seven months now. I'm not going to be trusting of her actions or words for a long time.