Hi Alpha, I agree with Twin about the 'doormat' advice.

You say your W is being pretty nice lately. Please don't start to feel this is a sign of change in your sitch. That is likely to take much longer, if it happens at all. It's much more likely that she wants you to co-operate on the sale of the house. By all means be pleasant in response, but plough your own furrow here...

Sounds like you are doing well though...


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus