Now how are you doing on the "working on you" list?
Making progress on viewing your wife differently? (Not just keeping your mouth shut but actually NOT "keeping score" or judging her parenting)
Just remember you won't "nice her back" either so don't play doormat when it comes to favors she asks of you.
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction