Good to hear you sounding feisty my friend. I agree with RD, I'm glad to see you not taking any cr@p from your H....
If he wants something to change, there are some important things he needs to do....
BTW, I'm reading Chapman's Love Languages (my April self-help read) right now. And it's very interesting. Reading your post, I thought - I wonder if Pink's primary LL is quality time?
Hope you enjoyed the rest of the time in the mountains, and I hope that you continue to feel at peace with yourself......whatever your H may be doing....
(((((Pink)))))
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus