My heart just breaks for you. I too feel many times that what's the point of having worked so hard - just to have if all implode. There have been days where I didn't know if I had the will to continue.
I have two young children which makes it hard for me, they are scared and confused and my WW doesn't seem to care. All she cares about is her fantasy life that diesn't amount to hill of beans.
My WW told me that our entire marriage was like a prison sentence and how awful it was. She said it was just much better for you than for me. I know that is a lie even if she believes it. I was there when we got married 3 times, I was there when our children were born, I was there when the chips were down, during the good days and bad. I was there every single day of the 19 years of our marriage.
There are days I am treading water, there are days when I am under water and then there are days where I am above it.
Your relationship was not a sham, you matter and your life matters. Everything she says is not gospel. Just remember she is a lost soul right now.
Hang on during stormy seas Kramer, I will pray for you and I hope you do the same for me.
